OBJECTION EXPLAINED – Agar Ladka Kama Nahi Raha To Kya Uska Nikah Jaiz Hai?
Ek jawan ne Mufti Yasir se poocha: “Main khud kama nahi raha hoon, lekin mere parents financially support karte hain. Kya is surat me mera nikah karna jaiz hoga?” Uska concern yeh tha ke Islam me husband par nafqah (kharch) wajib hota hai, to agar wo khud kama nahi raha, to kya parents ke paison se biwi ka kharch uthana theek hoga?
SHORT ANSWER – Kya Be-Rozgar Hone Par Bhi Nikah Jaiz Hai?
Haan, agar ladka baligh hai aur uske parents uski biwi ka nafqah uthane ke liye tayyar hain, to uska nikah jaiz hai. Mufti Yasir kehte hain ke ye walidain ka ehsan hoga, unki zimmedari nahi — lekin agar woh khushi se support karte hain, to nikah me koi haraj nahi.
DETAILED ANSWER – Nikah, Nafqah aur Financial Stability par Mufti Yasir ka Wazeh Jawab
Mufti Yasir ne yeh points clear kiye:
- Nafqah (kharch) husband par wajib hota hai, lekin agar parents voluntarily yeh zimmedari utha lein, to nikah jaiz hai.
- Parents ka support eik ehsan hai, wajib nahi. Agar woh regular allowance de rahe hain aur ladka us se apni wife ka kharch utha sakta hai, to problem nahi.
- Financial independence ka matlab sirf corporate naukri nahi. Skill-based jobs, freelancing ya choti income bhi kafi hai agar us se kharch uthaya ja sakta ho.
- Sahaba ke daur me bhi walidain apne beto ke nikah karwa dete the jab wo baligh ho jaate, chahe unke paas badi income na ho.
- Hazrat Ali (RA) ka example diya gaya jinhone meher ka intezam mushkil se kiya, lekin Rasool ﷺ ne unka nikah karwaya.
OBJECTION FLAWS – “Pehle Kamao, Phir Nikah Karo” Soch Me Kya Ghalati Hai?
1. Unrealistic Financial Benchmark:
Nikah ko sirf tab possible samajhna jab full-time job ho — ye modern culture ka pressure hai, Islam ka rule nahi.
2. Ignoring Parental Role:
Walidain agar support kar rahe hain, to use accept karna haram nahi — ye cooperation aur rehmat ka hissa hai.
3. Nafqah ≠ Earning Mandatory:
Nafqah wajib hai, lekin source ka specific hona (like personal income) shart nahi.
4. Nikah ko Delay Karna = Fitnah ka Risk:
Youth ke liye nikah me der karna unko haram raston ki taraf le ja sakta hai. Islam is risk se bachne ke liye early marriage encourage karta hai.
5. Skill ≠ Degree:
Mufti Yasir ne bataya ke skills zyada matter karti hain, na ke formal degrees. Halal earning ka koi bhi raasta ho, wo kaafi hai.
6. Parents = Emotional Safety:
Islam me family support ko ehsan aur barkat samjha jata hai, burden nahi.
FINAL THOUGHTS – Shaadi Sirf Khud-Kafalat Se Nahi, Niyyat aur Taqwa Se Hoti Hai
Jab ladka baligh ho, responsible ho, aur uske parents support ke liye tayyar hoon, to nikah me rukawat dalna na-insafi hai. Har youth ko corporate job ka wait nahi karna chahiye. Agar parents madad dena chahte hain, to unka shukr ada karke zindagi ka halal aur paak rasta ikhtiyar karo. Nikah se sirf physical nahi, spiritual safety bhi milti hai — aur Islam har halaat me us raat ko aasaan banana chahta hai.
